Top 5 Misconceptions About Perimenopause
- Dr. Marci Nelson, MD, MSCP

- Dec 13, 2025
- 3 min read
Understanding the truth behind this important transition
Perimenopause is a phase many women experience without clear guidance or preparation. Friends, social media, and even well-intended healthcare providers sometimes share information that is outdated or incomplete. This can leave women unsure about what is normal, what requires attention, and what support is available.
The goal of this guide is to offer clarity in a warm, supportive, and medically accurate way so you can feel more confident navigating your own transition.
Misconception 1: Perimenopause only happens in your 50s
Many women are surprised to learn that perimenopause often begins much earlier than they expect. Hormonal shifts can start in the late 30s or early 40s, and for some women even sooner depending on health history, genetics, or medical conditions.
Perimenopause is a gradual transition, and early symptoms such as sleep changes, mood shifts, or irregular cycles may appear long before periods fully stop.
If your body feels different, there is usually a reason, and you deserve an explanation that makes sense.
Learn more: What Is Perimenopause?
Misconception 2: You cannot get pregnant during perimenopause
Fertility does decrease with age, but it does not disappear until menopause is reached. Menopause is confirmed after a full year without a menstrual period. During perimenopause, ovulation becomes irregular but may still occur.
Even if cycles are unpredictable, pregnancy is still possible.
Understanding this helps women make informed decisions about contraception and family planning during this stage.
Misconception 3: Hot flashes mean you are already in menopause
Hot flashes and night sweats often begin during perimenopause. Hormone levels fluctuate significantly during this transition, and those changes can affect your temperature regulation.
Many women experience these symptoms years before their final menstrual period.
Recognizing this pattern can help you seek support earlier rather than waiting until symptoms become disruptive.
Misconception 4: You just have to live with it
Perimenopause is a natural stage of life, but that does not mean you need to struggle through symptoms without help. There are effective options that range from natural and lifestyle-based strategies to hormonal and non-hormonal treatments.
Support is available for:
sleep difficulties
hot flashes
mood and anxiety
cognitive changes
metabolic shifts
cycle changes
Your experience is real, and you deserve care that acknowledges your symptoms and helps you feel better.If sleep is one of your primary concerns, you may find this resource helpful:
Read: Sleep and Perimenopause
Misconception 5: It is all in your head
Perimenopause affects the body and brain in real, measurable ways. Hormonal changes influence mood, stress tolerance, sleep cycles, and cognitive function. These symptoms can feel confusing or overwhelming, but they are not imagined.
Understanding the physiology behind your experience can be incredibly grounding. It helps women move from frustration or self-blame into a place of clarity and confidence.
You do not have to navigate perimenopause alone
Every woman’s experience is unique. If you would like a clearer understanding of what is happening in your body and a personalized plan that supports your wellbeing, I would be honored to help.
Together, we can explore natural, hormonal, and lifestyle-based options that fit your needs and values.
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Perimenopause is a transition, not a loss of control. With the right information and support, you can move through it feeling informed, supported, and empowered.
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